Showing posts with label YES PLUS. Show all posts
Showing posts with label YES PLUS. Show all posts

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Why Art of Living and Me?

Why has Art of Living, a volunteer based organization spread over more than 152 countries in the world. Founded in 1981 by one person, His Holiness Sri Sri Ravi Shankar. Is it a big deal to touch more than million lives, across the globe, within 3 decades? I am not sure.

I have been associated with the Art of Living since 2004. The very fact that I am here to say this about the organization, says it all. There are some issues with The Art of Living. Since my social network is filled 50:50 with AOL and yet-to-do AOL people, I can take a stand here.

I have noticed, when the party we are attending, has no more topics to discuss it deviates to, "Ah! Vini, You are an Art of Living teacher. Tell us why should we do the Course?" or it goes, "She is smart, she has made her husband do the course." or even more, "Why don't you take a course for us 5?" So yesterday while doing my spiritual practice, this whole blogpost came alive in front of me. Many of us reading it, will exactly know what I am talking about. So here are some answers, in my-style way.

1) Why don't you convince me to do the course?
Ans: The very fact that no one has come to you and asked you to do the course, simply means, "You are still not ready to do it."

2) Why don't you take the Course for us now?
Ans: I was into teaching school children, English and other subjects and I loved it. But I never had anyone asking me to teach the family the subject, when I was visiting them. Being a teacher does not make one eligible to teach. The atmosphere, students, timings and various other factors have to pave way for the learning to happen. Teaching does not hold any importance if the learning does not happen.

3) Oh you are into Art of Living and you have problems? You fell ill? Then what is the use of doing Art of Living?
Ans: This is just like saying, a General Physician can never-ever fall sick. How could he/she have fever. I mean they slogged for 5 years and has 5 years of experience, and now they are on leave. Isn't he a Doctor? Same holds true for an AOL Volunteer/Teacher. My mentor, Khurshed Batliwala a.k.a Bau puts it so well.
"I will not say that after the Art of Living courses and even becoming a teacher, problems went away and everything was always great. That I never got angry or never felt bad. Sometimes life did suck. Problems did come, but along with them came the quiet confidence that I could handle them." http://www.bawandinesh.name

4) How comes its so costly? Can't we first try it and then pay?
Ans: It is paid for a 5 day workshop, 4 hrs during the weekdays and 6-7 hrs during weekends. And one time one donates, and they are welcome to do the follow-ups anywhere and everywhere in 152 countries. They can also repeat this course for literally Free! This is not even allowed in restaurants or schools. And this is for one's own self. Can we price it?
It is a win-win situation. Just for instance The Red Cross Society. One donates and gets a tax-credit receipt for tax-exemption. The same holds true for the AOL Course, but first it empowers oneself with new tools and makes one happy or more happy and at the same time one is contributing to the society.

5) Where does the money go?
Ans: There are various social-service projects which we are currently under-taking, world-wide. Catering to all the sectors, need-based, be it the Rural Development, Education, Trauma Relief, Prison SMART programs, Women Empowerment, Peace Programs. We have volunteers and resources reaching people and places just in time, and not just providing food, shelter and clothing but empowering them to lead a life of their own, with the help of stress-relief programs, education, farming and services. We might not be there personally but our resources are. We have been doing our bit here.
For Instance:

  • Reached 40,212 villages
  • Trained 110,000 rural youth in YLTP
  • Conducted 165,000 free stress-relief workshops benefiting more than 5,688,000 people
  • Conducted 49,500 hygiene camps and 25,950 medical camps benefitting 2,582,500 people
  • Planted more than 10 million trees
  • 1895 homes, 5418 toilets, 1152 bore-wells and 904 bio-gas plants built
  • 55 model villages developed benefiting 115,000 people
  • Trained over 6000 people in organic farming
  • So far the lives of more than 3,50,000 prison inmates have been transformed through the ‘Prison Smart’ programs
  • 210 free schools that are revolutionizing education in rural and tribal India and almost 95% of the students are first generation and the school is proud to have a 100% success rate in local exams.

They are just some of the many information. Our website www.artofliving.org would do more justice to the above statistics. AOL believes in "One cannot do charity with an empty bowl' and the bulk of the donation goes for the same. According to the Indian RTI(Right to Information Act) you can just mail them and get the answer. I would want one to do that. What we say is what is going to reflect.

6) Why can't I teach my friends?Cousins etc???!?!?!!
Ans: First of all, it is a process, and has a procedure which many are not even aware of. We put it very simple. So here I teach my friend, and something goes wrong or does not work, as it was supposed to, what will happen??? "The Art of Living does not work. OMG! " Now where did AOL come from, God Knows!
Now I do have to take MBBS or Surgery example. The moment my friend comes home after she performed her first surgery, we have a get-together, just so that she can teach some basic MBBS classes and Surgery lessons, so that we need not pay the doctors the huge sum and we can help each other. Smart Us :):):)

7) Why do you worship Sri Sri? Or have His photo in your house?
Ans: I have my parents photo because I love them and I miss them a lot. So now we know. And He personally does not want us to go ga-ga with His photos all over. But I have one, because, I admire this person, who practices what He preaches and has empowered me to do something. He is my role-model. I want His photo.
In India we bow down to our elders especially our Mother, Father and Guru. They have added value to my life and bowing down comes so naturally to me, so I bow down. Of course I loose something called the arrogance and gain confidence and faith in myself. :)

What it means to be in AOL!

These are the questions more often I deal with, with this beautiful smile which the course has gifted me, and/or with the silence, the Advance Courses have gifted me with, and/or an answer DSN has empowered me with!

Now as Sri Sri Ravi Shankar says, "Choice is yours, and blessing is mine."

Love
Me




Friday, April 29, 2011

Am I ?


Just like how a Dubai returned guy is entertained to a question he dreads, last month was my turn. It was just that, "When are you leaving ?" is replaced by, "What do you do at home ?" and "How do you pass time?" Ratheesh smiles when I get to answer such questions because I have always acted the conversation out to him. Yesterday it stuck me :)
During our courtship days I was very busy. 'Very' seems to be a small word here. Teaching and travelling distances was an every day affair :) So whenever Ratheesh called, it was always "Busy" phone. He told me, that I would be seriously bored and would hate it here. So be prepared. Same thing was repeated to me, by my cousins and friends who had gone through this phase. Hmmmmmmmm






Learning:
 I decided that once I land at Chicago, I am going to feel thoroughly bored. My whole aim and purpose here is to feel bored. Thats it!!! Till now not even a day has come, to the amazement of my Amma, Achan, Ratheesh when I actually told them, "I AM BORED." (Touch wood ***)


This I realised, boils down to the fact that, what you resist, PERSISTS. 


Stop for now :)


Love 
me

Monday, April 26, 2010

Random Realizations in a Random Manner :)

Last fews days beautifully added to the pages of my life. :) :) :)

TTC (Teachers Training Course) has actually changed and polished my life. Sharika is leaving for the same. It is going to be a beautiful milestone in this Journey of ours. Life is all about accommodating people into the realm of love. Unlike the Reality shows jargon, it is about 'Selection', rather than 'Elimination'.
Only a lighted candle can light other candles. And a candle does not limit its light to itself. Just like Mother-Nature it is there to give and serve. Since few months i realized, how by sharing and caring, we are in harmony with the nature and the nature goes to any extent to 'Take Care' of us. You all are light! Spread the light!

Possession Vs Love! Guruji says it beautifully. The moment we see something or sense something/someone really nice, we want to possess it. Instead of soaking in the beauty we plan and design ways to possess it! Not just possess it, but possess it FOREVER. The moment we decide to drop this feeling, we feel light from within. At least there is this better feeling than the feelings we have while we Thought we owned it.

Last week was a thunderous week! Intro-Talk training in Mangalore and YES!+ course in Manipal :)
Nature was so happy, that she saw to it that , it rained while I was there so that I feel even more good.
Lives transformed...

Monday, March 29, 2010

Something is cooking here!

Manipal saw a different side of itself this Sunday. “Vegelicious”, a vegetarian cooking competition for the ever-accepting Manipal crowd, by the YES!+. One thing worth mentioning was the organization. Kudos to the entire team for the exemplary creativity at work... There were 15 teams who were preparing their favourite dishes, at the Welcome Group College of Hotel Management, Manipal’s Kitchen :). We need to thank Varun, a student from this institution and proud YES!+ graduate. I seriously can’t take all the volunteers’ names which can go to about 40.
Right from the venue, sponsors, posters, questionnaires, registration forms, chart work, drawings, escorts, dress code, awareness etc, even the minute details were foreseen by them all. We could aaram se recognise the volunteers because of their trademark smile and a smiley attached to their dress. Satsang was so truly mesmerizing led by YES!+ again and the best part was when the heat of Manipal literally reduced as the afternoon raaga was being played on modified guitar (A guitar having Sitar strings too!) by  Mr Aishwarya Prasad.
The very nice part of this entire process was the awareness part they could take back with them Mind-blowing and shocking details of how you (Because I don’t :)) rape the planet by having even a one meal consisting of non-vegetarian diet. Yuck!!!! And an awesome sumptuous and creative presentation of dishes right from Indonesian Potatoes to our very own Mango Tamarind Rice and many more...
Mouth-watering, yummy! slurp!. Yup! No one had any of these dishes to carry back home for obvious reasons.
There were cash prizes, First and second as well as two exotic dishes award. The college had to say, such creativity was not even seen in the college of Hotel Management, so Kudos to the participants too.
Ashok Prasad Ji! Priya! Tanu! & Myself patting your backs and love you  all :)
More to come... photos will be uploaded soon....
Love
Me

Friday, March 26, 2010

The Five interesting Stages of Volunteering.

The post is shamelessly cut copied pasted from an awesome blog http://vnvyesplusteam.blogspot.com/. This post is written by Vasudha didi, Dynamic YES!+  teacher from Bombay. Did not want to edit it, as there is no flaw. This is an article which everyone who wants to take a step forward has to read. Read it and Loved it. PS: The article is not written by me. Every single word is by Vasudha didi.

                    Vasudha Di and Virat (YES!+ Teachers)
In the past 10 years of my life in the Art of living organization I have observed that the Life of an Art of living volunteer mostly goes through a few stages described below.

1st Stage is what I call as the ENTHUSIASM (or New born Baby ) stage- This person has just experienced Kriya and completed the course ,he feels elevated and High to go and share his experience with everyone. He feels like new born baby, ready to transform the world with his knowledge. His AOL teachers are like God for him and the volunteer’s are like angels. He wants to be like them.

2nd Stage is the LEARNING stage- He shortly realizes that there is more to learn than he thinks because his/hers enthusiasm is not being taken very enthusiastically by people of his world. So he becomes a perfect student. Ready to listen and do what his mentors want to teach.

3rd Stage is called the GRACE stage- This is the Best stage, when the volunteer experiences Guru’s Grace flow through him. He is in a constant state of wonder about how nice he feels while doing seva . When people actually listen to him with open ears ,and words which he has no clue of come out of his mouth. He feels on cloud nine when he sees a person he registered sitting on a course and thanks him for it.This feeling keeps growing as others start complimenting him and look up to him like a hero.
There are 2 kinds of people in the Art of living
1st are Those who have gone through the 3rd stage
2nd are Those who haven’t
For the 2nd kinds I have an advice, You are missing the most elevating experience of life. So quickly join the 1st category.

4th Stage is called the SVS (Senior Volunteer syndrome)stage- At this stage suddenly the “New Star” starts hallucinating. He in his own mind has imagined a position for himself and thinks himself superior now .He /she feels like a King or a lion/Lioness. You will generally hear such sentences from a SVS patient
‘ You know, when I give intro talks everyone listens”
or
“It’s a small talk ask a new volunteer to give it, I just give BIG talks”
or

”When I sing in satsangs people go so deep”
or
“In my last talk every single person registered, my talks are the best”
or
“You know, Bawa and Dinesh know me by my name”
or
“You know Guruji personally told me to sit on a TTC”
or
“For me a TTC is just a formality, I am ready to teach”
etc etc.
They have an air of authority around them and whenever they find a Bakra they grab their change to exhibit there seniority.

This stage can last Really Really long in one’s career in the Art of Living.
I think at this stage Master is having fun watching the show as he lets it continue for as long as he wants, until the 5th stage comes.

5th and the final stage is the Great Fall – One day you open your eyes to find that now you are in Ethiopia (A place where your existence means nothing more than a dust particle). No one knows you or your qualities here. And the harder you try the further you move from your goal of creating an identity in this place. This is the Great fall. Until you realize fully that you are only an instrument in the hands of the Master and he is the director of the whole show he keeps cooking you.

Our Master makes sure that we do not get stuck in any false identities and only aim for the highest and keeps giving us such experiences.

He is himself the epitome of humility and that’s for us to learn from. He even feels the thirst of a plant ,so very sensitive he is. His message of love is moving this world and as his messengers the 1st and foremost for us is to learn to be humble , polite , sensitive and loving to all.
If we have these qualities and none other, we are eligible to represent him but if the above are missing I think we missed the boat.

I shared the above with the volunteers in our weekly satsang .Both Siddharth and Virat suggested that I share with you. Hope you like it. Please comment☺in the link given above.

Vasudha.



Love
Me :)